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Post by blue1983 on Jan 13, 2014 19:36:16 GMT
Why is it you fall out with someone on not great terms, and they deside to be so imature bout it by riding past u and laughing and thinking that they r so bloody big, when there not, bt the one thing I am proud of is that I just walk passed them and said noting which shows I'm the bigger person! Bt what makes this worse is that they r 23yrs old humm
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Post by Admin on Jan 13, 2014 19:52:45 GMT
Oh grrr. They sound so immature! - I'm totally with you on that Hun! I understand though how horrible that feels, it makes you feel very awkward to say the least and angry more than anything! They had no right to do that and the fact that they did shows that they weren't worth knowing in the first place so think to yourself that you're better off without them in your life! So ridiculously immature.
How has it left you feeling apart from angry?xx
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Post by blue1983 on Jan 14, 2014 21:56:10 GMT
I felt upset that someone could still be like that, and just can't be more mature bout the fact that we r no longer friends! Also it made me feel intimadated and small like being bullied at school again, and just being laugh at for who u r or how u look and yah... Bt I'm going to try and not let it bother me, cause I am the bigger person at the end of the day!
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Post by Admin on Jan 16, 2014 0:00:14 GMT
I understand Blue1983, it must have been upsetting and I'm sure being upset is/was a natural reaction. It's also a horrible feeling to feel intimidated, no one likes this and I wonder what would have happened if the shoes had been on the other foot and the person who upset and intimidated you was the one being intimidated..... I bet they didn't stop to think about that. I wonder how they would have coped - pretty much the same as you I expect - I expect they would of become upset and also felt intimidated - so please don't feel wrong in any way for reacting/ feeling the way you did - I expect anyone would feel the same in a similar situation.
The fact is however, it wasn't a nice experience for you...
How are you feeling about the whole event now it's been a couple of days? Is it still as raw or are you feeling less affected by the incident now?
I think you're attitude of '...I'm going to try and not let it bother me, cause I am the bigger person and the end of the day' is a fantastic and admirable way to look at things and although it can't of been easy to say that, that's a great thing honey!
Thumbs up to you :-) xx
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and I appreciate your support too! It's early days yet for CTMT FORUM and I hope for good things to come but meanwhile any support offered from those who are members is very much appreciated.xxx